By BoJenn
Just about 100% correct, use this to discover any unanswered questions.
If first impressions can be shaped by fear, expectation, or old stories, then the question becomes: how do we know what’s real?
There are a few reliable signals:
1. Time exposes what instinct distorts. Interesting isn’t it. Perhaps, this is why humans and Earth are on a timeline… hmm?
The initial snap-judgment is loud; the truth is quieter but steadier.
When you sit with someone—past the first minute, past the first mood—patterns emerge that don’t lie. But, you must know this sign. It takes time to apply it in a natural rhythm and way.
2. Consistency reveals character. How true. Watch carefully over time. If you want to know if they are faithful, you must first: know them well, and secondly, observe, and compare their first response compared to their historical responses.
A manufactured impression can shine for a moment.
A genuine person stays aligned with their nature over days, weeks, interactions.
Watch what repeats, not the first responses when coming home from out of town.
3. Your body recognizes authenticity before your mind does
A true impression feels calmer, clearer, less “forced.”
A fabricated one feels tight, urgent, or strangely scripted.
Your body often knows before your thoughts catch up.
Just watch.
4. Ask: “Whose story am I seeing through?”
Asking self, “ from what part of me am I judging and am I truly fair?
Is the impression coming from you?
Or from old wounds, old lessons, someone else’s warnings, a lifetime of conditioning?
When you untangle that, clarity arrives.
5. Allow curiosity to replace certainty.
Always remember to use this because once you’ve accused, you have shut the doors to discover further. After all, 100% is much better than a partial percent.
When you stop needing an instant answer, you start receiving a real one.
Curiosity opens the door; certainty slams it shut.
So we know by waiting, watching, and letting the surface settle.
The truth is always beneath the first impression—it just needs a moment to rise.
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